However tempting it may be to finally stick it to that horrible boss, trust us, it’s not worth it in the long run. Think of the bigger picture here, networking is one of the most useful things that you can do, and you never know when that one person knows that one other person who knows JUST the person you’re wanting to connect with.
You can’t control how someone reacts, but you can control your own actions and responses, so even if you’re counting down the seconds to the end of that last day, it’s in your best interest to be professional, respectful and focus on building bridges, instead of lighting fires.
A negative exit can potentially derail future career opportunities; word travels fast, in any industry. It’s a very small world, and niche industry networks are even smaller.
Keeping the Bridge Intact:
- Resign face-to-face
- Be grateful
- Do it in writing
- Keep working hard
1. Resign Face-to-face
We know, it would be so easy and simple to write out an email, send it through and avoid any face-to face conflicts and awkward conversations. However, it’s time to swallow your pride, and have the tricky talk. It's generally considered more respectful to resign in person, and your emotions, tone of voice and body language humanise you.
Organise a one-on-one chat with your manager and ensure that they hear the news from you and not through the work gossip grapevine. Be prepared to keep it around the facets, it might look something like, “i’ve been offered a new opportunity” or “i’ve decided to take my career in a new direction”.
2. Be Grateful
This meeting is also a great opportunity to thank your employer for the experience and opportunities that your current role has given you. You may not be happy in your role, but there is value in any job, so be sure to show your gratitude.
3. Do it in writing
It’s common sense, but you should always put your resignation in writing. At the end of your verbal conversation, hand over the letter. Your resignation letter should include the date of your last day and gratitude for the company.
4. Keep working hard
While it may be tempting to tap out, you should continue to put in effort in your last couple of weeks. This will be your last impression so be sure to make it a good one.
Leaving a job can be really difficult, no matter the circumstances so it's important that you do it the right way. Maintaining on good terms with your employer is the best thing for everyone and could really help you out in the long run.
We also understand that sometimes it doesn’t go to plan, so if you end up leaving a job on bad terms, check out the blog below that outlines how to move on.